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Tuesday, December 4, 2018

December 04, 2018

How Corruption has become Fashion in our society?

Do you know what exactly is corruption, have you're ever tried to understand or noticed how easily it has become a member of our society. Why we don't hate it anymore? Why we don't think about it or feels shame on it. Do you know It has become a fashion in our society? Let's discuss it. 

Once we start giving respect to corrupt or criminal people in our society and starting to disrespect honorable people, then slowly but surely corrupt system shall destroy whole national mentally, morally and ethically, in our society we reached a stage where all the limits are been crossed, we  now don't feel embarrassed on our acts we always try to justify it in many ways.
Then we can say that;

Corruption is now an Ethical Fashion in our society.

1. Corruption in small social businesses.

We should have noticed in our daily routine, if we are buying grocery near to our house groceries, try to check prices from 2 or 3 shops from same area, you will find prices are dissimilar in each shop on different products, try to find an answer on that from shopkeepers, you'll be obliged in different ways, prices are higher in the wholesale market or rents are bit higher in this area.

Another thing you will find out, if someone is going to shop and he is in the car, the salesperson will tell him higher price by identifying the face value of the customer because he looks a rich person and he is not going to argue much on price. 

If someone is on a bike or streetwalking shopper then he'll tell little higher price then normal price because he knows after arguing he still will be able to sell his product in a higher price then the actual price for the consumer.

2. How corruption can affect us socially.

If you have gone shopping in a mall or market on a bike, you bought a ticket to park your bike from the paid parking area, unconsciously you placed your helmet on your bike assuming that this is a protected area,  after finishing your shopping you came back  to parking area to take your bike suddenly you found that your helmet was not on bike, it was stolen because it was beautiful and expensive.

If you try to ask from parking person where is your helmet that was on the bike he'll explain in you many ways letting you know that it was your mistake not ours, we don't know about it. then if you'll call the security guard or other personnel on duty, they'll tell you same because they don't want to lose the reputation of their mall or brand.

These are very simple but easy to understand example we choose for you to let you know how easily corruption can become an ethical fashion in our society and nobody is blamable.

Everyone needs to think about that, try to figure out what is wrong with us, why we are doing this If we are not going to raise such questions no one can change the mindset of people and society. We all accepted it by assuming that these acts are right. 

Let's change it.............................???

Be a Voice not an Echo

Saturday, November 17, 2018

November 17, 2018

Consider, You could be wrong

n today's social world, accepting or considering himself the wrong, that's not the case. everyone tries to portate a situation that another person is wrong, he is not willing to consider himself that he could be wrong. he thinks he is the right. In our society, everyone has developed the thinking that he is the right one, nobody wants to consider that he could be wrong.

This act has created adverse effects in our daily lives, we have lost the respectful thinking and behavior towards other persons, some of us will show aggression or someone will take discussion as long until he'll prove himself right.

By some of the examples we can explain it; 

  • Let's suppose someone is riding a bike or vehicle, he suddenly crosses the road from his way to another way of road to shorten his distance without using a legal turn or crossing, then he'll surely come in the way of other vehicles, who are going their way, then traffic will slow down because of his irresponsibility. If he comes in face to face of any vehicle, both will apply sudden breaks and all other vehicles who are behind him will also suddenly stop or hit. Now the situation is been created by this wrong driving person, due to that both vehicles can come out will start arguing but the general scenario will be that no one will accept his mistake, which could convert into lame excuses or aggression, which is costing time and creating the frustrating situation for others. Both will misbehave and use bad words to prolong the situation.
  • Another example you can see how Mr. TRUPM is behaving often, the recent and popular example of how he reacted with a CNN generalist during a press conference. If a leader has this kind of attitude then you are building a castle for your nation and society that one day shall eventually fall, you as a leader creating a future collapsing situation for the whole world.
We can understand that in this kind of situation anything can happen but the most destructive thing is that we have an unproven or unsolve situation.

You can find these kinds of situations everywhere in your live, office, home, roads, bazaar, etc. This can be eradicated by developing positive thinking and less hassled lifestyles. Everyone is in a frustrated situation either because of financial problems, job-related, family or personal issues our lives have been made in such a way in this globalized world that we are living in a frustrating situation all the time.

Materialistic lives have disrupted huge fire in society by promoting this act, globalization is also a major factor, participating in it with great hands, Social media and Electronic Media are also playing huge roles.

We don't have any calmer and cool society, everyone running after his dreams, we don't want to live in what we have, we want more and more, that runs every minute in our minds and is becoming more and more frustrating due to un-accomplishments of our targets.

We don't even bother to think about that, how should we treat with other people, have forgotten how to laugh, due to intense pressure on our mind and we don't know what we are saying, acting and behaving.

You can also see that the USA is led by an example if the president of the US doesn't behave humanly or give respect to this co-workers, slowly but surely it'll become a trend. Mastering the negative thoughts to be promoted in the whole world's mind.

Our Media, leaders and social impactors or even everyone can develop this kind of habit by showing examples which are time worthy.

Friday, November 16, 2018

November 16, 2018

Disadvantages of the mirror for girl or women in taxi

Women or a girl is sitting in a Cab, Auto or online Taxi has to suffer this frequent and displeasing phenomenon while being transported most of the drivers would fix the front mirror towards her and keep looking to her from mirror constantly with naked eyes.

Taxi Driver looking at woman from the mirror

This has become common of disrespecting women, you would have noticed many times while using Taxi or Auto sitting with your female partner that driver will try to adjust front mirror like that he can see the female while driving he'll keep looking at her from that mirror until the journey ends.

If you have seen by chance in that mirror and noticed that driver is looking at you, suddenly he'll swap his eyes to give you a look that he wasn't bothering you. We are not talking about all the driver are acting like that but most of them will do that. If someone will do same with his sister, mother, wife or even with the girlfriend he'll get angry or circumstances can become worse in this situation but others he won't think for a moment that this could happen with him.

Something needs to be done towards this area, We all have developed thinking somewhere in our mind that women are not made for respect, we even don't know as a whole this thing has crept in our mind and has developed negative or unrespectful thinking in this regard. This is not a fault of a single person, we as a society equally participated in it. We have high risen degrees but we don't haven't respectful thinking. We'll show from our gesture that we are paying the respect but in our heart or mind, we are not. Create respectful thinking not only gesture.

Monday, October 22, 2018

October 22, 2018

Stop Abusing on Job children!!!

A girl child was selling a book or something else at the petrol station, many of us would have seen this activity while passing from roads, in crowded areas, in shopping malls, at bank ATM withdrawing machines, at eating points, at a fuel station, and at any other place. How many do we think why these children are doing this, have we tried to know the reason and tried to solve or help out them....? The answer will surely be 0%.

While we spend a lot of money at a shopping mall to buy clothes, jewelry or at expensive and famous food points with our family and these children try to come near us to sell something to earn to support their family, we'll serve them with harsh wording or attitude. I would say this phenomenon is the creation of our own society. The differences between poverty and rich have and is growing so fast that we have forgotten these aspects of our society.

The thing I want to encourage everyone is that if we buy something or give money to them without buying something is not the solution to that act, we as a whole need to about built an atmosphere and environment that these children should not be working, they have the rights on community where we live, we as a whole are responsible for this.

Many organizations, NGOs at the international platform are working to help out this situation in many developing countries but sorry to say the facts are still very alarming if you see from your own eyes. The solution is a far apart we don't even want to give respect to these kinds of children, we hate them and misbehave them if we can't or don't want to solve their economic problems, at least we can make them happy by paying respect.
There is another aspect, why these children are working that there father's don't want to work or they have some kind of physical illness. In our part of the world, many fathers are drug addicted, they will physically abuse their children or ladies to force them to work, once they go out in very bad and dirty dressing, everyone will stare at them and passes away from them without thinking that why they don't have an answer or solution for them. How can we help them? why we don't think about that?

Until we as a whole won't participate in it, we can't solve this problem even how much help we get from the international community, we have to create a society and develop the thinking that we should not hate them, we should pay them respect and try to help them out to find the solution of their economic problems. 

These are some unanswered questions from our own social community of whom we never try to find the way. These are just the words we need to think much more than that...........................

Think next time before disrespecting them a while that if you was one of them what would be your thoughts, load these thoughts in your mind and go from them step by step, Do you have the answer?

Stop Abusing & pay respect on Job Children

Pay Respect to Working Children

Tuesday, October 16, 2018

October 16, 2018

People & Politics

Every government is based on the negative impacts of last government or a mind-affecting situation, create a big phenomenon, hit with great effect on peoples mind, who's Idea works and hits peoples most, can generate betters results.

Every party engages people with their self-driven ideas that they can change their situation, this aspect or that, etc. After all, the fault playing, the politicians will gain what they want, not interested in thinking that what people and society want from them and what they are doing.

People are raising slogans against politics

Thursday, October 11, 2018

October 11, 2018

Uber & Careem ! New transportation Era

How Careem & Uber have efficiently improved our daily transportation lives? We'll take close look at it, so Let's talk.................

Globalization has affected all of us, slowly and silently crept into our lives, with unintentional thinking or power we have been forced to dive into it, somehow it reflected good or bad results in our daily lives.

One part of globalization is modern transportation idea of Careem and Uber, a couple of years back we had the option to go out on roads and wait for transportation, waving at them, waiting in un-wanted situation or weather. loss of time and money were really big factors due to some certain situations. In some countries, the taxi driver will ask money at his will and you have to pay that because you don't have the time or option.

Modern Transporation Uber & Careem advantages

Now since Uber & Careem has crept in our daily lives, they have made our transportation lives much better especially in 3rd world countries. Our driver is at one click away right our door-step or pinned location with the security and hassle-free. Where ever you want to go Just put drop off location and google map will take you to your desired destination. Different types of transportations are available depending on your budget, very low to higher business class. Captains behavior will be pleasing and appreciable in most cases, in some cases it is wise-verse, other then it has become a very popular public transport service.

Complaints can be registered through the helpline or mobile app in different categories like overcharging, captain behavior, cancellation fee, etc. helpline staffs are also very cooperative. somehow in 10% of cases, we'll be stuck in a difficult situation when you are in a hurry, you have booked a ride and suddenly driver canceled the trip due not wanted to take your root and in some cases, rates will be higher due to nonavailability of captains are some adverse effects also but overall we can think Uber and Careem has changed and eased our lives.

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Wednesday, October 3, 2018

October 03, 2018

Traffic Problems: Role of Public & Government

In today's topic, we are going to talk about traffic problems in our country and how the public can participate to help themselves, instead of depending on Government.

Let's take about some common mistakes we are doing, that really irritating and wasting the time of everyone.

One of the major problems of slowing down the traffic in our country is that we don't have traffic lanes on smaller roads, and traffic comes from everywhere, people are in hurry, they want to reach really fast to their destination and they will make their way from one end to another end from where ever they can reach early. That is the key responsibility of the government to tackle with it by creating traffic lanes and educating people.

People are not using lanes to create traffic problems

Another reason everyone has seen many times in a day is that, whenever someone wants to stop a vehicle if he is on the right side or on the left side of a road he won't show an indicator, whether he wants to stop or want to take left or right turn or U-turn, which will create sudden stoppage for vehicles coming from behind that can actually cause an accident, If a vehicle is going on pretty good speed he could actually ram into the stopped vehicle that will result in minor or major accident. Even it hasn't costed the accident vehicles coming from behind suddenly will stop and will lead to slow down the traffic and waste of time for all of them.

I think we can improve ourselves by showing a simple indicator or following traffic rules while stopping or taking turns we should be enough educated to deal with that kind of simple problems.

I'll urge to convey the message to everyone while driving you can point out to whom, who is making the mistake. If we can do this yourself we can save time and lives of many people by taking simple steps.

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Monday, October 1, 2018

October 01, 2018

Still, I can't believe!!

Still, I can't believe!! is all about sharing a hard-earned experience with all of you. Before going into details Let's describe it.

We should trust or not? Everyone would think about this in his own way, some would have the bitter experience they would say we shouldn't! and other’s who had a good experience, they would say we should, things become completed if you are not a long and hard thinker and a soft-hearted person, you are in trouble most of the time. They are loved by everyone because of their nature but remain uncomfortable in their lives as they are not selfish, you are going to create problems for yourself by believing blindly.

This is a fact in this digital world you won't find many selfless people, by the time and experience you would find many people around you were eyeing on your pocket, bank balance or any kind of materialist in which you are sufficient then him.

This also has become normal, most of our society peoples don't want to earn in a hard way, they look easy ways, one way has become very common is to get daily financial candy by praising of wealthier people, move around commercially popular or richer people, praise them now and then, take financial advantage from him.

Once you become habitual you'll start generating such phrases, other people's hand will automatically bring some joy to you.

To better understand I’ll explain it with my own experience, We were working abroad from many years but were not financially stable, in the last couple of years I got promoted and started to plug reasonably good salary from my new job, I wasn’t strong enough to take step myself to start a new business myself, I was always looking for new ideas and suggestions to invest somewhere, from where I can get extra money other than my Job.

Still I can't believe

Create a new idea in business.

Once we moved to our last living space in that country, the person who lent the apartment from the owner, he became a good friend of mine. He was a very religious and soft-spoken person, he was very expert in winning someone's heart from his words. I was having some money so I decided to invest with him to get extra cash to fill my needs. To achieve that I was so blindly trusting on him that I never created credit cards for myself. I created a few credit cards for him on my name which were going to get me in trouble before I was rescued by God.

Slow and steady he was winning the hearts and money of lot of  peoples, that nobody even knew about other persons, that how many partners do he had created, at the top of that to win hearts one thing he was doing that he created a mess in which everyone contributed, every day he was buying grocery himself, cooking and serving them with sweet words and expressions. He started to lend a lot of apartments nearby areas which became an obvious way of income for him and he was in no need to any permanent job.

A year after, I lost my job and was forced to move back to my home country because of some unwanted circumstances, what I got as "End of Service benefits". Before moving back to the country that also I handed over to him without knowing anyone thinking that it would yield more financial stability to me.

After that, I moved to my home country and I started another Job along with that monthly profit from him. So I was in a healthy financial situation.

Time was running very fastly, I was never thinking that I should do something myself in my country, why I am believing so much on someone else? these questions never rose in my mind.

My brother took over charge from my side and receiving money from him and sending to me, which sent me in the complete piece of mind.

One day I received breaking news, the guy who was the owner of our business is missing, no one knows about him, most probably ran away after getting a hefty loan from the bank. After many days of search, we came to know we have lost our investment. which sent me and other people in shock for a few days.

 Since then I lost money but I revived myself as a self-believer. It'll take a lot of hard work and time to get back same financial situation, where I was at a time, but now every moment of my life has become harder and harder due to my own negligence. I have to blame myself for this and have to admit my mistake, I need to move on to be successful once more, instead of feeling the pain of it all the time but these moments are such on them Still, I can't believe and would keep saying myself What I did to myself.